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How to Save Money Without Giving Up Your Social Life

09/07/2012 by John 11 Comments

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Probably the last place you'd be likely to find JP (Photo credit: Moyan_Brenn_BE_BACK_on_3th_SEPT)

This is a guest post from Eric at Narrow Bridge Finance as part of the Yakezie blog swap. This week, we are all discussing the topic: How to Save Money without Giving up Your Social Life. You can read my post on the same topic at Eric’s blog.

I am in my twenties. I like to go to bars. I like to go to night clubs. I like happy hour. I like going on dates. I like sharing a good beer with a friend. I like visiting friends out of town. To make a long story short, I like to do things that are expensive.

However, you don’t have to give up your social life or your bank account. You can find a good balance and use some smart budgeting and money saving tips to have an awesome social life without going broke.

Re-Frame Social Events

For many of us, social events require being at a bar. This does not have to be the case. You can do all sorts of things with friends beyond the night club. You can go on a bike ride, have a picnic, take a walking neighborhood tour, to go a museum, or find many other cheap or free things to do with friends.

Being social with a group does not have to revolve around going places that cost money. While traditionally we go to meals, bowling alleys, mini-golf courses, and other places that charge you money, it does not have to be that way.

Skip Expensive Drinks at Expensive Bars

If you are in your 20s-30s, chances are a lot of your social life revolves around bars. There are generally two times that we find ourselves in a bar, for happy hour or night life.

Happy Hour

Saving money on happy hour is easy. Split an appetizer and skip the drink. Don’t go for the second round of drinks. Don’t feel pressure to keep up with others. Do what makes you feel comfortable and don’t feel bad leaving earlier than others. Enjoy the company of your friends, but you don’t have to drink just because you are in a bar.

Even better, if you find a happy hour joint with two-for-one drinks, split it with a friend rather than buying two. Explore the options in your neighborhood (work or home) and see what deals you can find.

Night Life

This is a bit more tricky, but you can still save money. First off, you don’t have to drink yourself stupid every time you go out on a Friday or Saturday night. Drinking less will help you avoid getting fat, avoid hangovers, and avoid going broke.

Assuming you want to enjoy those drinks, you can save money one of two ways. First, pre-party. Before you leave, have a few drinks. The ones you buy at the liquor store are going to be much, much cheaper than the bar. Second, don’t order name-brand alcohol in mixed drinks. Find specials and go for the well (ask for ‘whiskey’ rather than ‘Jack Daniels’) drinks.

What Do You Do?

How do you save money when going out for drinks? Please share your ideas in the comments.

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Comments

  1. Mrs PoP @ Planting Our Pennies says

    09/07/2012 at 8:16 am

    Volunteer to be the DD! Waters and cokes are way cheaper than alcohol – and you’re keeping you and your friends safe at the same time.

    Reply
    • Eric says

      09/08/2012 at 11:25 am

      Great idea. I have found that a lot of bars will give you free pop if you are the DD. Just let them know when you order.

      Reply
      • John says

        09/08/2012 at 11:36 am

        I didn’t know that! I’ll have to keep this in mind the next time I can’t avoid playing DD.

        Reply
  2. Jason says

    09/07/2012 at 8:46 am

    Love Mrs PoP’s suggestion! My wife was the DD for me and my friends when we were in college. She saved a ton of cash and was by far the most financially responsible amongst the group.

    Thankfully for me I don’t go to bars anymore. Makes me sick to think how much money I wasted doing that back in college.

    Reply
    • Eric says

      09/08/2012 at 11:26 am

      I still spend a lot at the bar, but I do it in moderation and know that the important things are covered first. It is all about balance and responsibility.

      Reply
  3. Lance@MoneyLife&More says

    09/07/2012 at 9:21 am

    I always used to get water at happy hours and just enjoy the company of my friends. I was weird though…

    Reply
    • Eric says

      09/08/2012 at 11:28 am

      Ha ha. It also makes it weird to flirt with a drunk girl when you are sober.

      Reply
  4. Emily @ evolvingPF says

    09/07/2012 at 12:29 pm

    Hmmm… I only drink water! I still go to bars occasionally but just to hang out. My husband buys one beer (and a beer for the celebrant if that’s the reason for the outing) because he wants something in his hand.

    Reply
    • Eric says

      09/08/2012 at 11:29 am

      If I did that, I would save a lot of money and a lot of calories!

      Reply
  5. CF says

    09/08/2012 at 11:31 am

    A lot of our dining out happens during mystery shops now. So when my friends want to get together for a drink, I’ll suggest a location that I can shop at so that our drinks and snacks are free!

    Reply
  6. Elizabeth @ Broke Professionals says

    09/09/2012 at 2:22 pm

    We tend to drink “in”… it’s way cheaper to buy a bottle of wine and drink it at home, but who likes to drink alone? So we invite friends over, and it becomes an event where the host buys the alcohol. Our friends always return the favor, having us over in turn. We all have young kids, so going out for a night on the town is even more expensive because we’d need sitters!

    Reply

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